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27 June 2008

home recommendation from afar

If you have no plans for the coming July 4th holiday and fancy a visit to the PA Dutch countryside, may I highly recommend a trip to my hometown. When I was in Paris a couple weeks ago, we had lunch one afternoon with a client of M. and T.'s. She was originally from Pennsylvania as well, but has lived in France for years and years. However, when I told her where I was from, her face immediately lit up as she once came to the 9-day festival and of course bought a couple quilts. And how could one not be tempted to do the same: check out some of this year's winners!

Have a great weekend, everyone!

hasta pronto,
mylifeinspain

24 June 2008

superbusy at home....

so just a quick foto from Big Jim's archives.....

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hasta mañana,
mylifeinspain

3 years ago: TGIF/garden shots
2 years ago: No entry.
1 year ago: No entry.

20 June 2008

travel notes from home

First, I know I missed a post yesterday (was a bit under the weather), but I plan an extra post to make up for it this weekend. :-)

Have also had a v. busy Friday, but I have managed to sort out a few more Paris fotos. One thing I find amazing about J. is the incredibly sophisticated palate she has for such a wee lass. Seriously, how many almost-2-year-olds like capers?! So when we went to dinner last Thursday night with our Parisian friend L. and J. said, "I want escargots, I want escargots," I thought, "Wow, what an adventurous little eater she is!" But when the starters were actually served, J. seemed to lose her nerve:

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Indeed, the mousse de chocolat was a much bigger hit. :-)

hasta manana,
mylifeinspain

17 June 2008

home away from home

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Across from my hotel in Paris was a little park with a playground, fountain, and a couple ping pong tables. In the late afternoon when I would return from being a tourist, this group of guys was occupying the same bench, playing some card game. Seeing them, day after day....

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...reminded me of the flat-capped group of older men here that Big Jim and I refer to as the Village Mafia. They gather around a table in the same bar, day after day, to play cards in the winter and dominos in the summer. Money may be exchanged, but none would ever tell their wives. They smoke their Ducados, perhaps sneak a drop or two of the hard stuff, and are always sure to finish in time to be home for supper. Sure, these men in Paris probably prefer Gauloise (and guess where they now come from) and bar service is limited in the park, but they most certainly are kindred spirits of Pepe, Antonio, Aurelio, Fernando, and the rest of the gang.

hasta manana,
mylifeinspain

****More Paris fotos have been uploaded to the album!

3 years ago: Happy Friday!
2 years ago: No entry.
1 year ago: No entry.

14 June 2008

"Outside. No parking plus accident car broken."

Which could be subtitled as "Reason Why I Did Not Post Yesterday" or "Mercury. Retrograde. Bad." as this is what greeted me at the Malaga airport arrivals terminal yesterday:


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Someone rear-ended Big Jim about a mile before the airport, but after getting the guy's insurance details, he still managed to drive to Arrivals, where we then had to contact our insurance company to arrange for a tow-truck and ride back to the village.

And this after ANOTHER letter bomb situation at Charles de Gaulle, which kept me and a small crowd of other travelers detained in a parking garage for half an hour. I told my driver about M. and my experience at Notre Dame Tuesday, and he replied, "Ah yes, the letter bomb is another Paris specialty!"

More Paris stories and fotos after I unpack and we see about getting the rental car.....

hasta pronto,
mylifeinspain

12 June 2008

just another day in paris

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So if you haven't gathered, I'm having a really great time! :-)

hasta pronto,
mylifeinspain

paris wednesday

Was busy as tourist and playing Mary Poppins yesterday, so just a bunch of fotos from our Paris Wednesday; commentary to follow..... now updated. :-D


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When J. is not busy sneaking her mommy's decaf, she amuses herself with sugar packets at the cafe.

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From the Tuileries Gardens....


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J. hanging out in the Tuileries Garden; lots of naked statues in the background.

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I don't believe this is the same giant spider, but Big Jim and I saw a v. similar piece at the Tate Modern eight years ago; this giant arachnid is in the Tuileries Garden.


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On the way to the Louvre....


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J. and Mama digging the carousel.

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At the Museum de l'Orangerie


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J. LOVED the water lilies, so much so that when it was time to leave, she declared, "More Monet's water lilies!"


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I could have spent all afternoon in those two rooms....


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This was amazing. I get hungry again just looking at the foto. Seriously. Monkfish with just olive oil, white wine, tomatoes, and smothered with fresh chervil, cilantro, and chives. Washed down with champagne, of course. When you visit Paris, you MUST go to this restaurant.


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M. enjoying her pastis. I'll let her tell you about the rest of her night here. :-)

hasta pronto,
mylifeinspain

11 June 2008

fotos finally!

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Jardin des Plantes

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Serious J.

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Inside Notre Dame

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More Notre Dame

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"Really?" J.


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More happy J.

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And more Notre Dame

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And evidence that there really was an "incident" at the cathedral yesterday, since apparently a letter bomb, which we heard detonated btw, doesn't merit any sort of media attention anymore.

Off to be a tourist. More later.

hasta pronto,
mylifeinspain

tuesday in paris

Have had a great day in Paris so far, being a tourist and spending time with friends. There was the small matter of a letter bomb that had to be detonated by the bomb squad just outside Notre Dame while I ate a salade nicoise, however. The police tape was hung just by our cafe table, so M. and I. had an escape plan ready in case we needed to leave quickly: throw the money down and run, me taking the salad bowl because of course NOTHING interferes with my eating.

A few fotos from the first 24 hours....

except that I can't post any because this Orange WiFi is pretty sucky. There appears to be another (free!) provider, but it is only available from 8 am to 9:30 pm. So you will just have to wait hasta manana.

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09 June 2008

in paris!

So happy to be here and have had a really lovely day. But I am very tired, so off to bed now and will post more tomorrow. :-)

hasta pronto,
mylifeinspain

3 years ago: I can see clearly now (sort of)
2 years ago: Foto Friday from Oz
1 year ago: No entry

05 June 2008

and sometimes it is good to leave home for awhile...

Monday I leave the Expat Village from Hell to spend five days in Paris with a few of my favorite people in the world. And boy do I need this holiday! As evidence, I provide an excerpt from an e-mail I sent earlier today:

I can't wait to see you! Seriously, I desperately need a break from here. Tuesday night Big Jim and I went to the most depressing dinner party, where topics ranged from "Computers are evil because they are the instruments of terrorists", which then led to "I have two Egyptian men living next to me in London and they are always on the computer; they could be terrorists!" (no, in all likelihood they are probably researchers or checking out porn or just emailing friends, you moron) and "You mean to tell me that the electric guitar is not just a easier-to-play acoustic guitar?" I'll spare you their opinions on childbirth over 30 and "How can you stand not to eat meat?!!!".....

I also don't think I got a chance to tell you about our dinner in Marbella a couple weeks ago with Big Jim's friend Clive and his girlfriend Margaret. The evening started fine until they ordered their second bottle of wine, and Margaret started to harass me to come with them to the nudists'/swinger club where they were staying. Despite my insistence that I "just didn't need convincing," that I had no issues with nudity and what other people do but personally have as much interest in a nudists'/swinger clubs as I do in, say golf, she kept pushing the issue until I finally said, "Look, I am not going to be bullied, so drop it now please." And then she sulked the rest of the night.

So you can see why I need a bit of a chill-out week among people who do not find mp3 players "terrifying" and who won't ask me, "Do you REALLY think the United States is ready to elect a BLACK man for president?"

I am soooo in need of this holiday that I am going to start packing just as soon as I finish off this tinto de verano. I don't even care that I will be leaving behind the first few days of true summer weather here, and believe me, that is saying something!

hasta pronto,
mylifeinspain

07 May 2008

venice recap: part 6 (when will they ever end?!!)

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Soon, I promise! They have to because I have another little mini-trip planned for June. :-) First, a quick recap of my experience with Shutdown Day on Saturday. I did successfully manage to not turn on the computers all day, nor did I even sneak a peak at the Internet on the one machine that Big Jim had running (he did not participate although conceded to shut down two of his three computers for the day), so I am quite pleased with myself. :-D And I used the time to do more of the traditional reading that I often claim to not have the time for (or more accurately, do not MAKE the time for), plant more seeds in the garden, and create some order in the office. So refreshing was the day that I have decided to have my own shutdown day one Saturday a month for the rest of the year, with the aim to making it a weekly tradition of sorts. As much as I love my technology, I do think it is important to cut the cord from time to time. :-)

Now to finally finish off this travel recap (incidentally I am wearing my fabulous purple shoes, my gift from Air France, as I write), I think one of the delightful things about Venice is the dizzying number of precious little corners and nearly hidden plazas to explore, not to mention the interesting architectural details spotted with every peer upward---I could wander for weeks I believe and not become bored. Here is just a small sample of what I am talking about:


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These, and more (!), fotos will be posted in the Venice album in the sidebar.

hasta pronto,
mylifeinspain

02 May 2008

venice recap: part 5

Yes, even MORE fotos from Venice, but I swear this trip recap will be finished soon and regular blogging will resume next week. I know some of you are waiting for more Bode kitty (or as Big Jim has taken to calling him lately, Shitty kitty) pics, and of course we have been making trips to the garden center and getting the terrace knocked into shape, and generally been enjoying the beautiful spring weather. :-)

Speaking of getting outside, tomorrow is the second annual Shutdown Day, when people pledge to not turn on their computers for 24 hours. I have signed up for this year's event and urge others to do the same, especially if you are like me and spend way too many hours staring at screens. Which means I better get on with this trip recap because I only have 4.5 hours until mandatory logoff time. :-)

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Venice is packed with museums, and Titians and Tintorettos seem almost carelessly tossed on walls all around the city. With just a few days to play tourist, we decided to hit the Gallerie dell’Accademia. There was a special Tiziano exposition on, but we decided to pass and just focus on the regular collection. Which was a smart decision as we barely made it through the museum in time for lunch (only served in most restaurants until 3 pm, which caught us off guard because in Spain meals can be ordered until 4).

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The one other site I believe one needs to see is the Palazzo Ducale, or the Doge's (Duke's) Palace (full of even more Tintorettos!). The entrance fee to the museum also includes the Bridge of Sighs, another one Venice's more recognizable landmarks. Photography was very limited inside, but when allowed we snapped away like crazy. :-)


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These and more fotos can be found in the Venice album in the side bar. Enjoy, and have a great weekend. TURN OFF YOUR COMPUTERS TOMORROW!!!

hasta pronto,
mylifeinspain

3 years ago: All packed
2 years ago: No entry.
1 year ago: May day

27 April 2008

venice recap: part 4

I know that the trip recaps are trickling in, but unfortunately real life reared its ugly head and demanded our attention. I will write more about this later, but for now will offer up a brief explanation. While we were in Venice, one of our oldest, both in age years and in time knowing, friends from the village died. His memorial service was Thursday, and Big Jim was asked by D.'s widow to give the eulogy. So forgive us if our hearts and minds have been elsewhere.

But now back to our regularly scheduled programming....

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Although synonymous with Venice, I was not quite prepared for so many gondolas, gondolas, gondolas! Around every corner were more gondolas, gondolas, gondolas and tourists queuing for gondolas, gondolas, gondolas! And the one thing that I did not feel compelled to do while in Venice was ride on one of the gondolas, gondolas, gondolas! I much preferred the high-speed action of our water-taxista, Claudio. However, that did not stop us for taking many, many fotos of the gondolas, gondolas, gondolas. :-)

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These gondolas, gondolas, gondolas (and even more f-ing gondolas!) will also be posted in the Venice photo album in the sidebar.

hasta pronto,
mylifeinspain

3 years ago: Spanish "express"
2 years ago: Melbourne interesting fact #1
1 year ago: Foto Friday

22 April 2008

venice recap: part 3

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Although I suppose one could eat and shop all day in Venice without doing much of anything else, eventually Big Jim and I did manage to see some of the city's better-known sites. :-) Even though we were staying on the island of Giudecca, this was easy for us to do because, as I mentioned previously, the hotel has a free shuttle available pretty much all day. And the 5-minute boat ride dropped us off a short walk from la Piazza San Marco, which could have not been more convenient. The plaza is known for a few things:

The tower:

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The cathedral:

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The crowds:

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And of course the pigeons:

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As cathedral's go, Saint Mark's is pretty impressive, as is the entire square. Even at a fair distance from the basilica, the smell of "old", centuries of incense and history, wafts out into the plaza from the church's open doors.

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No photography is allowed inside, which is understandable, but a pity. The incredibly detailed inlaid floors are mesmerizing, and I spent most of my time there crouched down admiring them while streams of tour groups passed around me, seemingly oblivious to what treasures lay beneath their feet.

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And of course no trip to the piazza would be complete without a trip to Caffe Florian, an institution since 1720, which allows it to charge crazy prices. The two coffees and cake that Big Jim and I shared, as well as a sitting fee, totaled 40,50 euros, or in today's (sad) dollar, $64.75! Which is a bit extravagant, but the coffee and cake were excellent and the people-watching superb. As a once (or twice)-in-a-lifetime experience, I highly recommend the splurge. :-D

(I have included additional fotos not included in the post to the Venezia photo album in the sidebar, just FYI.)
hasta pronto,
mylifeinspain

3 years ago: Poor Mr. Beebs
2 years ago: No entry.
1 year ago: Born to be Wild

18 April 2008

venice recap: part 2

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When Big Jim and I were packing for the trip, we had a little "discussion" because he could not understand why I was taking my supersized "overseas" suitcase for a five-day holiday. I countered with explanations that I needed both a heavier coat as well as my rainjacket (the weather forecast was not promising). But truth be known, the maleta was only half full because IT'S ABOUT THE SHOPPING, SILLY! How could the husband think I would go to Italy with just an overstuffed weekend bag (like him)!

And fill my suitcase I did! Don't get the wrong idea, though. As much as I enjoyed ogling the designer windows and the pretty glassware, my purchases in the end cost a grand total of about 20 euros: the perfect shoes for me EVER (the purple mary janes below---handmade and vegetable-dyed), which Air France will be paying for, and boxes and boxes (and boxes) of every sort of pasta we can't get our paws on here in Spain.

Of course, I am scouring eBay for those purple eyeglass frames, too. :-)

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hasta pronto,
mylifeinspain

3 years ago: Still with the winds
2 years ago: No entry.
1 year ago: No entry.

17 April 2008

venice recap: part 1

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We are back from Venice, and indeed the city is everything I expected and more. :-) Sure, it is a tad touristy, but this is a city like no other and thus I believe allowances can be made. At times, the experience was surreal because I am not used to hearing American on a regular basis, and in Venice I found myself surrounded by voices from seemingly all over the lower 48 (as well as the UK, the whole of Europe, and the full range of Asian languages). Also surreal, the fact that I could understand Italian almost better than the Spanish spoken here in the village (after 6 bloody years!!!!)

Tourist life in Venice is also not cheap, but then again the city is like a sophisticated version of Disneyland, so we didn't much blink an eye at most prices (although if anyone can guess correctly how much we paid for the two coffees and my little birthday cake pictured below, I will give a proper shout-out here---aim high, people). We also saved euros because our hotel has its own private (and solar-powered!) shuttle boat, and thus did not have to pay 6,50 euros/person to ride the waterbuses. We did splurge for the private watertaxi to and from the airport, and I must say jetting around the Adriatic like James Bond did wonders for my mood after leaving the Lost Baggage counter with my pathetic little courtesy bag from Skyteam.

But, of course, one of the star attractions of the trip was the food, and, as you can see, we were not disappointed. :-)

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hasta pronto,
mylifeinspain

12 April 2008

welcome to venice

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More later, after I am done spending my birthday money from Air France, who had the audacity to lose my luggage and leave me with only a Skyteam tee shirt, size extra large, and Big Jim's boxer shorts as my change of clothes, in Pradaland of all places! Happily, the suitcase was found and returned to the hotel today, so I am all :-Ds again. :-D

hasta pronto,
mylifeinspain

10 April 2008

on holiday...

officially in about one hour.


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Forty is looking pretty good, I tell you. :-)

Taking camera and laptop, so there should be posting from the road.

hasta pronto,
mylifeinspain

17 February 2008

my week in fotos....

First, a few more from the holiday trip archives....

The hawk (anyone have a clue what type?) that hangs out my parents' backyard:

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UPDATE: Thanks to M. and her brother, we have narrowed the hawk type down to either a sharp-shinned hawk or a Cooper's hawk. But as you can see from pictures of both here, you can see why even more advanced birders have difficulty distinguishing the two breeds.

Cute plumb-tuckered pups:

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The fountain of chocolatey goodness :-):

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One of the fun things we did while in Philadelphia (after first have a perfect diner breakfast here):

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But as you can see in the fine print here, we're not allowed to blog about it!

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And a few more from the past week:

The kitty...

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Big Jim gave me this for Christmas, a solar-powered light, which I charge up on the roof terrace and then it glows all night long. Pretty cool :-) :

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A mini-clown, from the village Carnaval parade:

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And lastly, Bode tries to figure out how the bidet works:

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He's one silly kitty!

hasta pronto,
mylifeinspain

3 years ago: No entry.
2 years ago: Foto Friday
1 year ago: No entry.

11 February 2008

my week in fotos....

First, a few more pictures from our trip to the States last month (I figure I will be finished sorting through all the fotos by summer if I'm lucky :-):


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Some of my favorite people in the whole wide world. :-)

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My parents' dog, the distinguished Chance.


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My niece and her Oma.


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My last piece of meat on December 31, 2007, and yes it really was a huge steak, 22 oz! No, I did not finish it, but almost.

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Supercutie Josephine. :-)

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Me and my baby bro.

And from the past week...

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I love Big Jim at Ikea in his reading glasses. Seriously, I think they add to his cuteness. :-) I also love my new desk chair. :-)

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Beach in Caleta, where we had lunch Saturday afternoon.

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And his best friend, the precious Boo.


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Damn I hate living so close to the beach! :-)

hasta pronto,
mylifeinspain

01 February 2008

my week in fotos....

Okay, so perhaps all the fotos this week are not actually from this week, but I am still wading through the gazillion I took while we were in the US. ANYWAY, hope you enjoy them and this new weekly feature for 2008. :-) Have a great weekend, everyone!


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My grandmother, working the gyroscope ball like nobody's business---all that crocheting = superfit wrists!

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King DAD. For the uninitiated, the paper crowns are from our Christmas crackers, which have been part of our X-mas tradition since Big Jim became a part of our family. :-) The amusing story re: the Oma's purple one is that she despises the color, so much so that some of her friends at the ALF will not stop by her room if they are wearing purple. But we made her wear the crown anyway because we're mean. :-)

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My cousin's daughter Ava.

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My niece with, yes, a gummy worm up her nose, which her Uncle Jimmy, see below, taught her to do.

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Yeah, I don't know this man either.....


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And yes, Big Jim ate there. :-)

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View from the terrace back home in the village.

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The gorgeous late afternoon light.

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The precious Boo. Please note the lumpy bit on pillow behind her. I couldn't find Bode kitty anywhere, which was why I dared to interrupt the pB's precious sleep. And then I noticed the lumpy bit move....

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Found him, little (supercute) bugger.

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The handsome Mr. Beebs, aka "the trashpicker". :-)

hasta pronto,
mylifeinspain

3 years ago: 10 more days... (the beginning of the detached retina saga is found in the January 2005 archives)
2 years ago: Kitty reclining on terrace no. 2
1 year ago: No entry.

05 January 2008

foto saturday and more

We traveled from Philadelphia on Wednesday to Cape Cod via a 1-night stopover in NYC. Unfortunately, it was way too cold to do much in New York, but we did manage to score some great food at the Saigon Grill (thanks Julie and Don!) and had a great breakfast the next morning at Good Enough to Eat (buttermilk biscuits with strawberry butter, yum!).

Thursday evening we arrived in Hyannis and have been visiting with my brother et al. ever since. Needless to say, we have enjoyed even more good eats, as well as wandering about this austere beauty of a place, especially tranquil at this time of year. The only oddity has been an extremely strange cleaning woman who keeps removing the "Do Not Disturb" signs from our hotel door handle and then insistently pushes unwanted fresh towels on us. Cuckoo...... Anyway, here are some recent travel fotos from your enjoyment: :-)

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My brother actually has a day off work today, so we are off now to get into trouble. :-)

hasta pronto,
mylifeinspain

02 January 2008

new year philly style

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Holidailies readers please sign the guest book! :-)

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Mummers.....


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hasta pronto,
mylifeinspain

01 January 2008

2007 in review

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Holidailies readers please sign the guest book! :-)

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* A great start to the new year in Tavertet, a beautiful village in northern Barcelona province

* Big Jim started his work contract in the Hague

* An early spring, which made for a pretty March garden on the terrace

* I received my first birthday card from El Corte Ingles

* A lovely May Day hike with Big Jim and the pups

* Despite swearing to buy no new plants this year, the garden somehow seems to have taken over the terrace more than ever

* Big Jim's 50th birthday bash

* August brought long days at the beach and a Gipsy Pimp

* My grandmother
celebrated her 96th birthday

* Monkey!

* November visit to Brussels

* The arrival of Bode kitty

* A fabulous visit to the US (and it ain't over yet!)

Happy New Year everyone, and thanks again to all the Holidailies readers this past month. Hope you continue to stop by in 2008. We are sure it will prove to be an interesting year. :-)

Must dash as I am off here to eat my last piece of meat ever!

hasta pronto,
mylifeinspain

30 December 2007

what we've been up to....

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Holidailies readers please sign the guest book! :-)

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Big Jim eating dumplings at one of our favorite restaurants in Chinatown

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My lovely niece Cora, who has given Big Jim and I a serious cold but we love her just the same. :-)

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Find the vegetable on the PA Dutch buffet table.....


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Cafe au lait at Rays, yum. :-)


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The house lo mein special, superyum. :-)


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Many shots from the Reading Terminal Market, oh how I miss thee....


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More from Philly later....

hasta manana,
mylifeinspain

23 November 2007

brussels recap: part 2

Late Saturday morning I finally convinced Big Jim he should put on some clothes and go play tourist with me. I have yet to tire of wandering around Brussels. There always seems to be a flea market or park or cozy cafe spot or shop that needs to be investigated. :-)

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Hunger eventually called, so we ducked into one of my favorite places, Le Cirio. I have warned Big Jim if we move to Brussels, I will probably spend most of my days there because it is just that kind of place. The dogs could nap under the table, and I could people watch forever. Big Jim and I highly recommend the cannelloni should you find yourself there anytime soon. :-)

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After tiring ourselves out, we went back to the hotel for a siesta before heading over the Claude's for dinner and to deliver little Elena her birthday present. She is a true Euro baby---Portuguese mother and Belgian father who speak English in the house but send her to a French-speaking crèche. At the moment, she prefers raspberries and laughing though to language, so we got on really well with few communication issues to speak of.

We stuffed ourselves on a Portuguese chicken and rice casserole and then eventually made our way back to the city center for a nightcap at ABVT. Afterward, Big Jim insisted on a trip to Fritland (recommended: the piri-piri sauce) before we made the short walk back to the hotel and another well-deserved sleep.

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hasta mañana,
mylifeinspain

3 years ago: the Rock
2 years ago: No entry.
1 year ago: Happy T-giving!

20 November 2007

brussels recap: part 1

To catch the bus to Málaga Friday morning, I had to leave the house quite early while it was still dark and most of the village was fast asleep. I was traveling pretty light, so I decided to take my usual shortcut down to the lower part of the village, where the bus stop is. However, this turned out to be not very wise because I had to navigate a particularly steep street, one that my brother commented years ago would best be summited with the use of crampons. But I regularly use this street now, so I never anticipated a problem. I would have been fine except that I was wearing a pair of leather-soled boots that are a bit slippery, and this was compounded by the fact that the grooves put into the cement incline to provide traction are worn smooth. And I was carrying a 25-pound suitcase. And there is no railing to hold on to. I took three steps and realized I could go no further without gravity toppling me head over heels. But I also could not turn around and pull myself back up to level ground. Like this I stood for a minute, trying to figure out WTF to do.

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Understand death by falling down stairs and steep grades is not uncommon in these parts. So I sat down, stabilized the suitcase behind my back, and took off the boots. The only way down, without risking a broken neck, was in my stocking feet. Once I carefully carted the bag to level ground, I climbed back up to retrieve the boots, which I put back on only when I got the bottom. And then carried on to the bus stop, putting the mini-drama quickly behind me.

Hours later, I emerged from the gritty Gare Centraal (looks like it hasn't been power-washed in the 10+ years since I first walked through it) and literally walked across the street to our hotel. If you ever find yourself in Brussels and in need of a place to stay, we would recommend this base because the value for the € is incredible, and its location cannot be beat.

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I immediately soaked my weary travel bones in the bath and waited for Big Jim's train to arrive from Amsterdam. Once we both were settled, we headed out to Au Bon Vieux Temps to see the owner, our friend Maria. (As an aside to the commenters on Beer Advocate, the staff speaks both Dutch and French; just don't expect the French to sound like French French because it's not. And give the waitress some slack---she is 82!) Since Big Jim and I met in ABVT, we are greeted most graciously every visit and Friday night were invited to join Maria at the round table in the corner, where she usually holds court with her coterie of interesting people.

At who knows what time, late-ish as Laurent wasn't due in from Paris until 11:30 or so, the Boys and Claude's wife Sara and her Portuguese brother and his girlfriend arrived, downed a bunch of Belgian beers faster than one probably should, and announced we should all go to a disco called the Guru Bar (although the way they pronounced it sounded nothing like Guru Bar).

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(I can't believe Fritland has gone all upscale though. Compare here with 2+ years ago....)

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Back at the disco, I truly cannot remember the last time Big Jim and I were out at such a place, perhaps because we live in a village at the crossroads of Nowheresville and Hicktown. Or maybe because normally I am put off by velvet ropes and $70 rounds of drinks AND having to pay for the privilege of peeing in a filthy bathroom. But somehow Friday night none of this mattered (except for the paying to pee in a gross bathroom), and we had a fun time until the masses left for parties elsewhere and Big Jim and I grabbed a cab, arriving back at the hotel at 4 am. After a cup of tea, we went off to dreamland, resting up for a day of being tourists in just a few hours.

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hasta mañana,
mylifeinspain

3, 2, and 1 years ago: No entries, bad blogger!

19 November 2007

back from bruxelles

Back from a fabulous weekend in Bruxelles/Brussels, and will post a full trip wrap-up in the next couple days after I have unpacked and rested up (Friday night was a v. late night involving discos and early morning taxis and dancing and much fun, need I say more). Plus the little VIPs are due back from their vacation at the doggy resort and spa any minute. :-)

A few photos for now:

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Happy Monday!

hasta mañana,
mylifeinspain

3 years ago: TGIF, expat blues
2 years ago: Pup pics
1 year ago: Ayers Rock

15 November 2007

on the road

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Big Jim and I are meeting here this weekend for a little mini-vacation and reunion with our pals Claude and Laurent (whom I call "Larry"---with an added drawl for effect---because BJ constantly reminds me that I mispronounce his name, not that Larry can pronounce my name correctly either mind you. But he's from Paris and can get away with such things.)

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For those not in the know, Big Jim and I met for the first time in this very room. We always go back and visit because we are sentimental, nostalgic types. However, we have upgraded to a posher hotel this trip because we're older now and comfort is v. important. :-)
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And the pups are off to VIPet World for the weekend. It is bloody VIP, too, by the way. Their chauffeur ride cost more than my plane ticket, which seems incredibly absurd. But with no other kennel within 50 miles, we have little choice but to pony up. And besides, they are little VIPs. :-)

In their absence, home security is being provided this weekend by Almendena and Herb Thief, who are like hawks, so don't even think about dropping by without being interrogated by them, and possibly their sisters and cousins or whoever else is out on the street keeping tabs on our place. Another positive to small-town living. :-)

Posting this weekend is contingent upon proximity to a web cafe....

Hasta pronto,
mylifeinspain

3 years ago: Butter
2 years ago: No entry.
1 year ago: No entry.

18 October 2007

monkey!

Due to general busyness, one semi-recent event I have not blogged about was my parents' visit last month. This was their third trip to our once-little village, and traditionally my dad and Big Jim take one day to go off and be adventurous. On their last excursion, my father wound up with a seriously broken kneecap, and Big Jim had to work some magic to keep the Moroccan police from carting Dad off to a Tangier hospital, preferring to board the ferry and deal with the situation back in Spain. So this year, Big Jim decided it might be better to stay a little closer to home and surprised the Old Man with a trip to the Rock. And what is mylifeinspain's favorite fave about Gibraltar? The monkeys (ok, technically Barbary macaques, NOT apes as they are commonly called), of course! :-)

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For all you serious monkey fans (and I know who you are), I have posted a complete album in the sidebar. :-)

hasta pronto,
mylifeinspain

3 years ago: Being a woman/happy anniversary
2 years ago: Earthquake aftermath, "the baggage"
1 year ago:
No entry

08 October 2007

pakistan remembered

As regular readers know, Big Jim and I were traveling around Pakistan two years ago today and found ourselves in the middle of one of the largest and tragic natural disasters, an earthquake that claimed more than 80,000 lives. To say that that experience made an everlasting impression on both of us goes without saying, but I think sometimes that the other influences and effects that Pakistan has had on my life are often overshadowed by the drama that impacted greatly on the latter part of our trip. When the country does make headlines in the world's media, it almost always is because of some tragic occurrence or political fracas or footnote to a story about Osama bin Laden. The lives of the average Pakistanis rarely garner the spotlight. And so today I have been revisiting the vacation photos (something that took me a long time before I was able to face) and decided to post a bunch that Big Jim and I took there, before the earthquake, of people just going about their business (the earthquake photo album is still found in the left margin). (As always, you can click on the photo to enlarge.)

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